Pain Remains

How is it that September is in full swing? My brain seems trapped in August. The days are hard right now, harder than in the beginning when Josh was killed.

 I find I wake most mornings ready to cry. Fibromyalgia and pain in general seem magnified.  Sleep comes but doesn't seem to refresh me. Most of the day I skate by on auto pilot.

I did start reading a book on surviving difficult times. It reminded me that God has allowed this and is surely able to get me through it.

There is a song that has brought me peace these past couple of weeks. Even though I am heart broken, I know God planned ahead for this very moment.




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